Courtney: Watts up Deviants? Welcome back to the Naughty Corner. We are on the unceded - What?

Nate: Nothing. Sup f***ers? we're here to read Reddit stories. You already know what it is.

Courtney: Sup ⁓ as Geraldine Hickey would We are on the unceded territory of the Wanaruah/Wonnarua people, we are Court Is In Session a Reddit Reads podcast, where game recognises game. We judge AHs on the internet because we know we've been one.

Nate: We listen and we do judge.

Courtney: We're not listening and we'll judge. we judge AHs on the internet because we know we've been one, we give advice on s**t situations because we know we've been there, and we give Aussie takes because wouldn't understand what the f**k we were talking about if we didn't. So whether we are being c***s or just serving it, we know it when we see it. Welcoming back to the naughty corner, Nate. got there eventually. ⁓

Nate: So many outtakes to be edited right now. It's fantastic.

Courtney: It's just gonna be a whole reel of f**k f**k f**k

Nate: f**k f**k. Literally, we just need like a whole like just blooper reel from this one episode as one of the Please.

Courtney: So, shall we get started with a pick your poison? We have a ⁓ pick your poison for Pride Month. Pride Pick. Woohoo! poison. Pick Pride Pride Poison Poison Pride. Choose Choose gay. I almost hooked up with a cross dresser and it's making me feel terrible. I found out who outed me 11 years ago and I'm devastated.

Nate: Yes. Choose pride. Choose gay. You you already know what it is, so I need this outing story. The Yes. ⁓ I want them both, but I have to pick the second one. Because you should feel no shame for hooking up with a cross dresser. People are people. You hook up with who you hook up with. If you feel shame for that, shame on you.

Courtney: The outing. Yeah, well, from memory, 'cause it's been a while since I added that, the language use, which ⁓ really isn't appropriate, was ignorance thing. It was something that they just knew nothing about and I'm pretty sure that one had a wholesome ending.

Nate: I'm your Goth Girl cosplay friend wasn't in Goth Girl when ⁓ when woke up the next day. ⁓ Get it.

Courtney: I found out who outed me eleven years ago and I'm devastated. was definitely a parent. So basically I, 30 male, am gay and am from a family who doesn't believe in that lifestyle, put it kindly. ⁓ I was outed when I was 19 and lost everything overnight. ⁓ My whole family was sent drunken photos of me making out with guys at a pool party, basically, and yeah, I was never able to figure out who did it and really spiraled.

Nate: It was definitely apparent.

Courtney: My family kicked me out and I moved in with one of my friends at the time, now 35 male, then 24. He really helped me get on my feet and became one of the closest people to me. One thing led to another and we basically started a romantic relationship. We ended up breaking up for different reasons a few years back and have been pretty off and on since, and it's been a bit of a mess, but I guess I always had this white knight who saved me when I was down view of him. So I let him off the hook easy. Anyway, the other night we got pretty smashed at a party and got into an argument. I ended up going home with him anyway, and we had one of those drunken oversharing moments. We've all been there. I've been emotional lately because I found out from one of my cousins who still secretly talks to me, My brother passed, and I just don't have any closure. And none of my family even thought to reach out to let me know. I guess a part of me thought that somehow they'd come around eventually. I know I should hate them, but it's complicated. I just wished things hadn't gone down the way they had. I basically told him the same thing through tears, and that's when he dropped the bomb.

Nate: Yeah.

Courtney: I can't remember word for word, but he tried to argue my life's better now that I'm out of the closet, and I'd be miserable if I hadn't come out, and if I hadn't gotten the push, I'd still be living a lie. clicked in my brain and I asked him if it was him. And he denied it, but not in a very convincing way. We started to argue and he did end up admitting to it eventually, but basically arguing he did it for me, and he saved me and blah blah blah. He always brings up the argument of how he took me in when I had no one, and that's always worked on me, but now I find out you basically orchestrated that. Suddenly someone I viewed as a saviour morphed into my worst nightmare in front of my face. Feel like I instantly sobered up and didn't end up getting any sleep. I'm still sick to my stomach about it. I'm suddenly very afraid of the person. If you went that far to hurt me when you weren't even mad at me, what will you do if you are mad? next

Nate: Morning.

Courtney: The next morning I could tell he didn't fully remember what had gone down, but seemed to be paranoid, like he remembered bits and pieces, but wasn't sure if he told me or not. I pretended I didn't remember anything and went home. He's texting me the way he does when he's anxious, and I'm not responding as of now. I know I need a clean break from this person, but had to get this out there, and it's easier to tell strangers at this point. I know my family sucks, but if you aren't gay, it's hard to describe how bad being outed is, and how it can be dangerous sometimes. I should have been able to come out on my own terms and he took that from me. Also, my whole family seeing embarrassing photos of me was the cherry on top.

Nate: Yeah, like it's one thing for your family to find out you're gay, for it to be shoved in their face in that manner That's that's just gonna make everything worse.

Courtney: That that's the least of my f***s. if you're sensitive about that kind of s**t, good. I hope you're uncomfortable. But the fact of the is, this s**t can literally get people killed. Yeah!

Nate: Yeah. Like that's what I mean. Like if they had been able to come out on their terms in their time, their family might have even been able to come around to the idea and realise still them. But if they are especially from a like religious background of any sort, ⁓ they're just here's your son ⁓ all of this, that's my child. Get out of my life. Like there is no It's not a knee-jerk reaction, that just is their reaction. is disgusting, but It's never your choice to out someone else. It is that person's choice. Now is their partner or they're just like their best friend? ⁓

Courtney: Well, they were together for a while. it didn't start off as a No, it was just a friend that he had met-ok- and then ⁓ that into something romantic. ⁓ But I'm looking at here is the fact that this kid was nineteen. Yeah. And at the time this - just wee baby gay - ⁓ this other guy was twenty four.

Nate: Just a wee baby gay. Yeah, that's predatory as hell.

Courtney: Yeah. I'm getting the vibes that this guy essentially

Nate: Like that's basically fifty in gay years.

Courtney: And like he he wanted a reason you to not have to hide whether or not that was because you maybe he was annoyed that kid was ⁓ still in closet -yeah- and it like, if you're too ashamed own your s**t, then you're telling me that I should be ashamed and it was like a power move in in that case. Or it was a if I wanted a relationship with well then ⁓ I'm not going to hide who am and so it was kind of forcing his hand. It it

Nate: It could also be like a I'm somewhat ashamed of who I am myself, so I'm gonna out you so that you have to deal with it at the same time. a self hatred, I'm gonna make everyone else hate themselves at the same time type deal.

Courtney: Or a like my coming out was s**t. And so

Nate: Yeah. No one should get a good one.

Courtney: Or it's a that will give us something to bond over. Yes. If you have a coming out that's similar to mine.

Nate: But I also definitely agree, run, because if this is how they'll treat me when things are good, how would they treat me when they're bad? But what other aspects of your life are they controlling at this point? Yeah Like if they've developed this narrative to the point where you are completely reliant on them for so what else have they done?

Courtney: And I reckon that's the the core concern. you have specifically outed someone, especially someone as young as nineteen, where they likely haven't been a part of the community very long, then that essentially means that you have stripped them ⁓ ⁓ of their relationships, leaving only you and then all future relationships you then go on to develop is connected to them. So it is very much like restricting and isolating ⁓

Nate: It's akin to like kidnapping almost.

Courtney: like that hyper emotional dependence -yeah- of not having sort of outside relationships because, you know, predators like - also

Nate: Get some help for like you're probably gonna develop severe like paranoia around everything because you very likely have Stockholm syndrome. ⁓ So seek mental help for making sure that side of things is okay?

Courtney: Okay. Yeah, dude's very much very obviously getting a complex.

Nate: Yeah. If I can't have them nobody will.

Courtney: Comment, you are 19 and having orgies? OP responds, drunkenly making out with two people in a pool isn't exactly my idea of an orgy, but if that's your takeaway from this, go off. sweet summer child. ⁓

Nate: But also hot.

Courtney: That's f****d. comment. Holy F, don't with him anymore, I hope. I would cut contact for sure. And are you in therapy? Sounds like you have slash had a lot going on, so that might help. Godspeed. absolutely. OP says that don't live with him anymore. Thank God. That would make things way harder. I'm not in therapy, but it sounds like that should be my next step.

Nate: Absolutely. Yes.

Courtney: And then following up with a rant of a comment. That twenty four year old bastard outed nineteen year old baby gay you, very likely with the ulterior motive of cutting you off from your support system, making you completely dependent on him, and exploiting the situation sexually. I can't even begin to say how much rage and disgust that fills me. Block him on everything, call the police if he stalks you anywhere or tries to accost you. Tell them your dangerous, stalkerish, psycho ex won't leave you alone Get a T.R.O- whatever the f**k that is- If he doesn't get the message otherwise, please cut him completely off. Hopefully then you'll be able to move on for good with the help of a therapist and in time find an actual sane partner who isn't controlling and manipulative.

Nate: It's the American version of an A.V.O.

Courtney: I think it might be the UK version because I'm pretty sure it like it's a rest - it might be UK- it's a restraining order -but way- Oh! T.R.O - ⁓ I don't know.

Nate: Yeah, either. Yeah, it's just another country's version of our A.V.O. Although we might even have T.R.Os in Australia. Because I know A.V.O is an apprehensive violence order.

Courtney: So it's an A.D.V.O now. Apprehended domestic violence order. Yeah.

Nate: So the T.R.O might just be like a standard you are not to go within this distance of people 'cause you'd probably get a T.R.O and an A.D.V.O

Courtney: don't know. Alrighty. Regardless of the motive -it ok. it yeah, that's completely and you to separate yourself. get as far away from this person as possible. Because even for the best of intentions, That is an atrocious thing to do.

Nate: Either way, f**k that. It ain't okay.

Courtney: ⁓ very easily could have put this kid's safety at risk. Yeah. Like very literally, especially with how badly their family reacted. there are still laws in the US that's homophobia essentially a it's a homicide defense. I so panicked about this that I killed them and

Nate: Yeah. Yeah.

Courtney: They're like, yeah fair

Nate: Fair cop. a recognised form of mania. Which is disgusting in itself, but also therapy should definitely be your next step, if not just for what you have been through here. For the that you would feel, even if you're you're obviously feeling the grief over the loss of your family itself, but your brother. as someone who has recently lost their father and their grandfather. Who I was close with and in contact with regularly. It sucks. And I'm needing therapy to deal with that. So I can only imagine what they would be going through someone as close as their brother without being able to contact them or have known them for years because of something like this. They're likely going to be internalising blame at themselves for being who they are and how they are, which is in no way their fault. For the reason that they're not being able to contact their family and therefore lost their brother. And that's

Courtney: Yeah, like I could've if if I had just kept that s**t under wraps, then I would have been I would have had all that time with my brother.

Nate: Yeah. And that's not your fault. It's no one's fault.

Courtney: And if that is the case, your brother also had the ability to-yeah- track you down once he was an adult too, so

Nate: ⁓ I mean potentially. With the way that they sound like they were removed from everything, they may have been moved different cities, different places, wherever and completely fallen off to the grid to the point where his family literally did not know how to find or reach them anymore.

Courtney: I doubt it. That post was only October of last year. So with a year difference, like that was only 2015 man. Like Instagram had been around the the block of or two but

Nate: Yeah, but if but name changes are also so prevalent within the LGBTQ community. Especially when you're going through something as traumatic as your family abandoning you, you may just create a whole new personality, whole new persona -you reinvent yourself and start again- whole so they may not be able to find you at all anymore

Courtney: You reinvent yourself to start again.

Nate: Mm. And it may also be the fear of them finding you that caused that.

Courtney: Yeah. I definitely get what he means when he says, you know, that I'll never get closure now. Yeah. we know how I feel about closure-

Nate: Yeah. Like There -there will always be that what if And it

Courtney: ⁓ really hope he gets past it. And f***s that guy off.

Nate: And has all the orgies with two guys in hot tubs that they want.

Courtney: While d***head can f**k a cactus.

Nate: Yes. Many cactuses. Cacti. Cacti for that guy.

Courtney: Die. Alrighty, let's move on to some fair call mate. Step one. Man vs bear.

Nate: Ha ha.

Courtney: Coming from

Nate: All I can think of as the Gruen ad that you sent me the meme of. Now we have to fear that the bear is the man.

Courtney: Yes-John West recently brought out ad where this little baby bear is showing his mum a fishy he caught and it's all very cute. And then the mum like unzips herself and it's just a dude in a bear suit. And given the whole, know, if you're in a woods, would you rather be find yourself in the woods alone with a man or a bear and all the women choosing a bear? And now we have to f*****g worry about whether or not the bear is just a man in a f*****g bear suit? I'm that on Gruen and they didn't raise that. Which just goes to show how out of touch the ABC is with the youth, because they f*****g would have raised it -yes- had any of them known what man vs. Bear was.

Nate: Either that or they were too worried that Will would get on such a rant about bears being the hairy man variety. And the ABC's progressive but not that progressive.

Courtney: Well, bears are a a common touch point for comedians. They even the the head the comedy writers group, shout out to Marcel, he had had a song about bears in his major raw set ⁓ kind of launched him. ⁓ It's it's the thing about comedians bears, man.

Nate: I mean that said, if they had had a very flamboyant large hairy man in that bear suit, that is the perfect way to do it. But not Like John West, missed opportunity. Yeah.

Courtney: Like you don't have a bear getting out of the bear suit. So this is coming from the page. This is Fae Propaganda, if I ever saw it. And it is ⁓ essentially it's a of comment that then been tweeted. So, Mark McEliot. I'm sorry, Mark McElligott. Says, As a man, I have to say if I see a woman alone in the woods, I'm much more wary. A man belongs in the woods, doing manly woodsy things like building a cabin, hunting, clearing land, camping, fishing- He f***in' stole that baby bear's fish.

Nate: He was the guy in the bear suit.

Courtney: A woman lurking alone in the woods is looking for a sacrifice for her coven. Screw the bear. I see a woman, I'm gone.

Nate: I mean fair. Yeah. I I get it. Yeah.

Courtney: But also it's like kind of being on a ship and seeing a siren, it's like this is how it goes this is how I go.

Nate: That's that is my point is Take Me Away

Courtney: Ha ha. Just walking around the woods like ⁓ no if the Fae happened to take me like 'cause Millennial-

Nate: No, -If you want my name, take it, but it comes with all of the associated debts, adulting requirements -neuroses- You are welcome to

Courtney: the person who has tweeted this comment responds, The secret is out, ladies. One was smart enough to know why we were in the woods in the first place. Hashtag man or bear. hahahahaha

Nate: First we give them pockets, now we find them in the woods. All to do with witchcraft, man, I'm telling ya.

Courtney: Mm, we have our reasons.

Nate: And they're valid reasons.

Courtney: Next up on Fair Call Mate. I missed dating when I was fat.

Nate: Okay. Is it because they're more likely to want you for you who you are and not just for your body? -let's find out- I'm assuming.

Courtney: Let's find it. I gained about 50 pounds during my last relationship. After it ended, I tried dating again and I got around 200 likes in 24 I deleted the app. Skip to now. I've lost 40 pounds, re-downloaded Bumble, same profile, updated photos. Now I've got 1100 plus likes in 13 hours. And the difference in how people treat me is jarring. Right. I used to struggle to get one text a day. Now I'm getting quadruple texted and guilt-tripped if I don't respond fast enough. I'm overwhelmed. And when I was fat, guys would say, ⁓ you're so sweet and you're so funny and now I'm getting you're so beautiful and you're so sexy and I don't know. I don't think I like my looks being commented on every two minutes. Yeah. I feel like even though it would be rare, I would have deeper and satisfying conversations when I was bigger. Now it's just empty and superficial. Edit. I'm using my old pictures again. We will see how it goes.

Nate: Knew it. Men are despicable.

Courtney: And yes, if you have a f*****g problem with that I'm talking to you specifically, personally. Check your f*****g trunk.

Nate: And yes I'm male, but I don't qualify as "men".

Courtney: s**t that that ⁓ the You know, the whole pretty privilege, totally valid. But then there's also like the the pretty dismissal where it's like if you're anything like you're allowed to be anything else or you're not seen to be.

Nate: Yeah. Otherwise you're too intimidating. or too opinionated or too aggressive.

Courtney: If if you make a point to actually get to a relationship level, sure. But in like in a when we're talking like these initial stages, it's like even if you try to share something more than that, it it's not really heard. Yeah.

Nate: Yeah. Cause the guys are too busy staring at your tits. -yeah- Their eyes are up here.

Courtney: Yeah. Alright, like all he can hear is like simlish. He doesn't know what your hobbies and interests are.

Nate: Yeah but Unless they are like cooking or reading or playing on the computer or what else do they do in the Sims? Swimming.

Courtney: Mm, key comment. My highest weight was 270-ish when I was 18. I never dated. I had lost a lot of weight by the time I was 21 and met my now husband. I was probably 180, still chubby. When after we started dating, I kept on keeping on and lost another 40 pounds and was really hot, to be honest. I'm here for that energy. He and I picked up marathon running together and were really super fit. Now I'm 31, we've had two kids together, and I'm six months pregnant with twins. Suffice it to say, my body is not the same as it always was. My health and fitness is still very important to me, but weight has fluctuated a lot and usually settles around 160 after each baby. But guess what? My husband's never said a f*****g word about it. His desire for me does not fluctuate with my weight -yeah. His attraction for me is not -good man- based on the hot body I had in my early twenties, which is great because we're getting old together. Things change. I'm so glad we met when I was bigger because I know based on the types of guys that constantly hit on me when I was in the 140s I could have ended up with a very different sort of man.

Nate: yeah.

Courtney: Ugh if we could use some of our other senses, that would be helpful. Your eyeballs isn't all there is.

Nate: Plus I'm fine anyway. I couldn't really care about tits or arse of body. I'm an eyes guy. they have to have eyes I can get lost in or I'm not interested because I daydream a lot. And I -that's the most Autistic thing I've ever f*****g heard. And if I can't into their face while I'm like in space, I'm not interested. That's why Chloie gets more and more beautiful to me every day.

Courtney: One dissociation at a time.

Nate: Exactly.

Courtney: you've raised it but this one have the theme of dark humour. I don't care if he's dead, put him on the phone.

Nate: Yeah.

Courtney: That is the end of our fair call, mate. We are heading into Fucked Around and Found Out. ⁓ I don't care if he's dead, put him on the phone. I was sent here on a recommendation from another sub with a story you guys might like. First time poster on mobile, etc. father died on Father's Day 2012. Oof. He was divorced and living alone. ⁓ I am an only child. So that means that I had to wrap up all his affairs. This story centres around us trying to get his utilities cancelled. I called in to see what we had to do to get them to cancel. The lady I spoke with on the phone said to send his certified death certificate. I sent in the certified copy of his death certificate the next day. The next month, got another bill. I called again and a new woman answered. She said that because I wasn't on the account that she had to speak with the account holder. I informed her that the account holder was dead -yep- but she wouldn't budge. I had to make an appointment with a supervisor so she could speak to him herself in ⁓ I showed up at the Board of Public Utilities with another death certificate and his ashes in the clear bag that they returned his remains I plopped them down on the centre of her desk and said when she talked to him to tell him that I loved him for me.

Nate: He would like to speak with your manager.

Courtney: The woman went pale, flew out of her chair, and called the cops. When they showed up, she claimed that I had assaulted her. And yes, my dad's remains were still sitting on the middle of her desk with the death certificate. The cops questioned me as to why I would do that. I told them the story. The supervisor's boss was called in and they all stepped away from the desk for a private talk. While they were talking, the cops came over to talk to me. They said I shouldn't take human remains out in public, but there was no laws that were broken. Yep. I said that I agreed with them that it was extreme, but she insisted to speak with him in person. By the time they were done talking between themselves, the supervisor's boss kiss kissed up to me and got it taken care of. ⁓ my god, I could do

Nate: No, I just realised something is you've ha met Pocket Sand, now introducing Pocket Dad! I have my dad's ashes.

Courtney: I feel like that would be a crime.

Nate: I mean not if I do it to my siblings, then it's just uncouth.

Courtney: Well then it's just sibling Justice. Then that's literally just wait till I tell your dad. But the story isn't over yet. I had to call back a few days later to get utilities back to the house in my name. my god. When person on the phone saw the address and my name, I was immediately put on hold.

Nate: Yeah. What?

Courtney: The supervisor's boss that finally helped me got on the phone. She sucked up to me and waived all the fees that come with setting up utilities - yeah - Just as the call was ending, she informed me that she was again so sorry for the employee's lack of compassion. Yeah. She said that the employee was terminated. Good. And again she is so very sorry.

Nate: I mean I'm hoping termination just means fired and she hasn't joined her father to have a conversation with HR. You wanted to talk face to face!

Courtney: You wanted that was your choice.

Nate: And I'm assuming by like dumped his remains on the desk she didn't just empty the urn out No! It was the tied up baggie - of Yeah, that's fine -goldfish style- That's As long as she hasn't like just dumped it. Like, you need to speak to him face to face? Pocket Dad. ah hahaha

Courtney: It was the the tied up bag goldfish style.

Nate: But still, that's that's fine. She's not dumping remains anywhere. She's just here he is. You wanted to talk to him. I would have took it per like one step further and put a like a my name is Kevin on the bag or whatever his my dad's name was Kevin. Hi, I'm Kevin. So I would've had it yeah. Like on the bag. Dressed the bag up in like one of his favorite T shirts. Draw a smiley face on it.

Courtney: Your eyes are all over the place. They're telling me that you've gotten too many ideas.

Nate: Possibly. My siblings are going to hate me. And it's entirely your

Courtney: Last one for f****d around and found out. Dickish kid doesn't give up train seat. So I make him

Nate: Good, I hope he falls flat on his face. that kid. ⁓

Courtney: Coming from r/pettyrevenge So I, 22 male, had to take the metro to go somewhere today, and it was pretty full, but I noticed there was a teenager, 16, question mark, male. Question mark. ⁓ Taking up spaces with his bag and him laying down - oh f**k that kid. And he was playing music loudly with his phone. I politely asked him to move his bag so I could sit, and he rolled his eyes, smirked, and said, Nah, I don't think so, This annoyed me greatly, and if it weren't for his tone and the music, I probably wouldn't have escalated harder. But I grabbed his bag, felt the weight to check for electronics, and then threw it somewhere further along the train. Of course he instantly got mad and asked me what the f**k I was doing and and that I'd better go get his bag. Then I just told him he could either fight me or go get his bag himself. oh oooh oh ooh oh oh

Nate: ⁓

Courtney: Unfortunately, I'm 90 kilos and pretty strong and he was some lanky teenager. I don't think he expected that, but after five seconds he went to get his bag. Yep. I took the space and invited the other standing people to go sit down. He came back to no space and started yelling at us. I reminded him again that the only way I would move is if he would start a fight with me. Again, he seemed to consider, but ended up storming away eventually. Yep. I get that I'm kind of a bully in this situation -no you are not- but man some people just need to learn that the world doesn't cater to them. Like yeah, like if you are a bully, it's vigilante justice style thing.

Nate: Yeah f**k that you're 100% down to bully the bullies. ⁓

Courtney: You're doing it in the name of good. it's like evil powers. Like sure you can have inherently evil powers, but if you can use them for good - absolutely - it's still a a public you are a public servant sir!

Nate: That's still a good thing. You are not the hero that train needed, but you are the hero that train deserved.

Courtney: I mean it's it's the hero this five other people that now get to have a seat needed. Correct.

Nate: also screams Australia.

Courtney: Well metro. That trains aren't called metro.

Nate: but I know plenty of f*****g eshays ⁓ are going to do this s**t on trains. They're probably not even paying for a train ticket. They're just jumping that b***h. The of kids that need to - I mean a kid was laying down

Courtney: Yeah, I'd probably sit on them. be like oh no, did I break your ankle? How unfortunate.

Nate: Feels -What it feels like to be punched the face. Like I don't care how old you are, if you want to square up to me, I will swing. It's as simple as that.

Courtney: you wanna go? Because I'm out here running in the dark.

Nate: Go ahead, which one of me do you want?

Courtney: Yeah, I'm out here running in the dark my little skort wishing a motherf****r would so I can work some s**t out on

Nate: Works on the streets, okay? Abso-f*****g-lutley. You old enough to f**k around, you will find out today. And if you want parents wanna have a chat about it, I'll f**k your dad up. ⁓ Hell, I'll just f**k you dad. I've said it before. We keep circling back to

Courtney: We've been there. The same idea.

Nate: I'm willing to do it. I'm sorry, but if they're not gonna do anything about my future child being bullied, I will. I will not fail this city.

Courtney: And if for whatever reason, ⁓ you see my child in that sort of situation, then you are also doing me a parenting service by bullying my child.

Nate: Absolutely. The amount of times I yeet your children through your house into pillows and bean bags and cushions and like soft areas they will be yeeted. They come back for a second yeeting, but it's just a game at that point. First one's anger issues, the second one is fun.

Courtney: Yeah. Wrapping ⁓ on f****d around and found out. Am I the AH for refusing to let my sister move back in after she secretly recorded my therapy session?

Nate: No.

Courtney: I 29F have been in therapy for about a year after a really rough breakup and some family trauma. My therapist does both in-person and telehealth sessions, and I sometimes take the virtual ones at home because I live alone and it feels safe. A few weeks ago, my sister, 26 female, asked to crash at my place for a few days because her roommate kicked her ⁓ I agreed, but I made it clear I'd still need privacy for my therapy sessions. Why'd she kick you out? I've had my sisters move with me at various points and s**t goes down, it's like sure. But what the f**k did you do? What happened? You tell me.

Nate: Maybe the sister's the c**t.

Courtney: That's my whole point. Yeah. Like I'm sorry, if you're saying you got kicked out of somewhere

Nate: That doesn't happen for no reason.

Courtney: Yeah, you're suspect. Tell me. What's going on? What the f**k'd you do?

Nate: Either you are or they are, but we want the tea.

Courtney: During of those sessions, my therapist mentioned something painful about my childhood specifically, how my sister's behaviour had contributed to my anxiety. I didn't know until later, but my sister had apparently recorded the entire session on her phone from the other room. She confronted me later, saying I was lying about her to strangers, and that she had every right to know what I was saying. I was horrified. That session was confidential and she violated not only my privacy but also legal and ethical boundaries. Correct. I told her to leave immediately and said she was no longer welcome to stay with me. My parents think I overreacted, they're saying she was hurt and that I should understand her feelings. ⁓ But to me, what she did was a massive betrayal. Okay. ⁓ Get all the way f****d with that because The only way she have stuck around to hear that part to be hurt is if she was already f*****g recording it. So you be like, she was hurt and that's why she recorded it. It's like, no, she was hurt because she was actively listening and recording my f*****g therapy session- she's heard sessions. This is not the first time. Now my family is pressuring me to let her move back in temporarily because she has nowhere to go. Tough f*****g s**t.

Nate: This is not the first time. Or she's like up against the wall with like a glass against her ear, old school style.

Courtney: But I've refused. They're calling me cold and selfish. I feel guilty because she's my sister, but also violated and angry. Am I the AH for standing my ground and refusing to let her stay with me?

Nate: Hell nah- f**k that b***h.

Courtney: again, paranoia. Like how you'd never be able to trust a f*****g Or of with court orders and s**t.

Nate: Yeah. No no, you are not the AH in any way. F**k them, f**k your family. I can understand your family just wanting everyone to get along, but at the same time, no. they're just going to instantly blame you for what she has done, then she is never going to learn the consequences of her actions.

Courtney: Comments. can move in with your parents and violate their privacy. Absolutely. It's no wonder her roommate kicked her out. Stand your ground. Now there are some deleted comments, but the responses to them make me wonder what the f**k was said- yeah? Because there's a maybe they've become nudists since they became empty yesterday. I have no idea where that came from. I'm assuming that there was some sort of joke about

Nate: Yeah. Yeah. Transparency?

Courtney: No about the the specifically like ⁓ data research on the parents if she was to move in with them. Mother 64% less yesterday than Monday, then 58% more on Friday. Dad. But I went to see my parents on Friday. ah hahahahahaha my god, that sister can get f****d. Like I'm sorry. to be fair, if I have s**t to say about my sisters, I will say it to their face. They will never have to overhear it from someone else- yeah same. So like it that and that goes for If I have a problem with you, I promise you know.

Nate: Yeah. I will put a caveat on that. I will often run what I am going to say to them by someone else first, just to make sure I'm not escalating a situation worse than it should be, or I haven't read the situation wrong first. So there are several times that my sisters have messaged me something, I have taken extreme offense and thought they would like calling me the biggest piece of s**t on the planet. But they were actually genuinely checking in on how I felt. So I've run it by some friends or other people first I just go to them and start s**t in their face. That is the only time I will ever talk about a situation about someone behind their back is to make sure I'm not wrong before I do this. -yeah I like that's different though. The second I get my vindication and like it's f*****g on. ⁓

Courtney: Yeah, I feel like that's different.

Nate: And in the heat of the moment I'll say whatever I want, but I will make sure that that first message is point. I wish to cut you surgically deep, but not so you will bleed out instantly.

Courtney: Where's the fun in ⁓

Nate: Exactly. want you to simmer and suffer for a few days. ⁓

Courtney: so much for joining us ⁓ in The Naughty Corner for Court In Session. We will see you time. ⁓

Nate: Hooray